I rarely share before and after photos on my site or on my Facebook page.
Why? Because it’s really tricky to show before and after of behaviours, feelings and thoughts. And the reality is, that it is those things that change most when I help someone.
It is none of my business what size someone is, that they smoke or drink too much, that they are no good in interviews, they’re scared of flying, or in fact anything about how someone lives their lives. I couldn’t care less how you live your life.
I do care when you come to me and ask for help. I do care that your subconscious is getting in the way of you making the best choices for the way you want to live your life.
My job is simply to get your subconscious out of the way so that you are free to make the choices you want to make.
A person who wants to lose weight for health reasons knows exactly why it’s important to lose weight. They even know what they should do to aid the process. They don’t need me treating them like an idiot and telling them what they should do.
I treat you like a normal, intelligent human being that is simply being hijacked by your subconscious. My job is to stop the hijacking.
My job is to allow you the freedom to be you
If you come to me for weight loss and decide, as a result of our work, that:
- You are happy as you are and don’t need to worry what people think (because you can’t read minds after all), that is excellent.
- The emotional hold that food has over you is removed, so you lose enough weight to reach your target size, that is excellent.
- You no longer need to use your size to hide behind so it becomes ok to lose weight permanently, that is excellent.
Because I help you change your brain. I don’t change you. You do all of that.
I use neuroplasticity to stop your subconscious switching your brain off. I guide you to rewire your brain. If we had your head under an MRI scanner during a session, we would see neural pathways changing. Neuroplasticity.
This excellent video explains it very clearly
So you won’t find many before and after photos on here because so much more than outward appearance changes when I help you. And because these changes are through re-wiring your brain, you can’t go back to how you used to be.
They are steady and permanent changes that free you up to be whoever you want to be
It also means I don’t knock you out and change your head. How can I possibly know the right thing to change without your involvement? It may seem like an easier option to be knocked out, but it’s a little more hit and miss. The approach I take is just as quick (typically 2-3 session is all it takes) and is permanent.
So why not drop me a mail and see if I can help you change your brain to free you up to be the best you can be?